Drug and alcohol abuse by parents can have a serious effect on their children. Though not all parents who abuse drugs or alcohol mistreat or neglect their children, sometimes, the children can be put at considerable risk.
Risks to children
There is an increased risk of violence in families where there is substance abuse. Children can also suffer from lack of parental supervision - establishing boundaries and discipline, and live chaotic lives. This can seriously affect their psychological and emotional development, and may cause problems with their relationships later on in life. In addition the children may copy their parents' behaviour. Another problem may be the isolation of the family from neighbours and other support.
Children who are most at risk
The children who are most vulnerable are those whose parents are violent, aggressive or neglectful. These children can remain 'invisible' from the services created to support such children, unless the children's behaviour attracts attention at school or elsewhere outside the home.
Children are less likely to be affected if their parents' behaviour is not too severe and their lives have some order. It also helps if they have strong relationships outside the family. Some are better able to cope than others, show great insight into their parents' situation and take on responsibilities which they should not normally have.
Getting help
If you are a parent and you feel your ability to care for your children is affected by drug or alcohol abuse, you should see your doctor as soon as possible. He or she will be able to refer you to other professionals who specialise in drug and alcohol problems. The important thing is that you should get help as soon as possible.
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